I’m often asked about how to get “control” of emotions when on the course. Along with this is the desire by many golfers to want “control” of their swing and where the ball will end up. These misguided desires are probably the biggest destroyers of confidence and a fluid swing. Instead of wanting “control,” the golfer would be better served to think of wanting such positive mental attitudes as: “release” and “carefree” and “loose.”
Just the word “control” itself tightens up your muscles when you think or say it.
I’ve heard golfers say that they 오피 전주 have trouble with their emotions on the course and yet,
at the office, they are able to remain cool, calm and collected in order to do their job well.
Let’s look at a typical business negotiation and compare it to being on the course with regard to the meaning of “control.”
Many high-performing business types are absolute masters of making a deal happen because they feel in control, and yet, they go out on the course and end up throwing clubs soon after. It doesn’t have to be like that.
Feeling like you have “control” or not is completely all in your mind.
For instance,In a business negotiation, any number of things could happen that are completely out of your control such as:
1. The client could get an emergency phone call at any moment taking him out of your meeting,
2. He could have a heart attack or stroke right there in the meeting
3. He could be in a bad mood from some unsettling business or personal news before the meeting that makes it all but impossible for him to focus on your pitch/idea.
4. He could have some sort of prejudice against you (race, age, etc.) before you even begin negotiations
5.He has some sort of psychological problem that overrides logic and reasoning at times. These issues and more easily could be in play and you have absolutely no control of these kinds of things.
Any one of these for the other person can derail any successful business outcome before you even have a chance. Even with all of that, most businesspeople would agree with you that they feel they still have a great deal of control, which is why they can be successful. And that is a good thing!Now, let’s compare to golf, where, you control everything!You swing the clubs, you are in control of your own mind, you choose everything about how you decide to play the game. The only thing you don’t ultimately control in playing golf is the weather and course conditions but even there, you can observe them and make adjustments for them.